Return to Content

Andrea Phillips: Waiting in Vermont

Andrea Phillips: Waiting in Vermont
4 votes, 4.00 avg. rating (79% score)

Y: What did he say to you?
A: First he said to me, “Is your husband home?” [laughs] I said, “No.” Then he said, “I’ll come right over.” It was just a little thing Richard and I always had; he’d call me at any hour, day or night, and in that little baritone voice of his, he’d say, “Is your husband home?” I teared up. I’m tearing up even now, remembering.

Y: From that moment to when he came home, he had no idea about the media response to this. Was there any way for you to prepare him?
A: I said, “Richard, you have no idea what’s going on on this side of the world; it’s absolutely crazy.” I told him about people camped out in the yard with satellites.

Y: Why do you think the nation got so caught up?
A: Well, it was everywhere in the news. You couldn’t help but hear about it. And the 24/7 news is usually something bad, you know, like the Tiger Woods thing, not usually a nice outcome, or as spiriting as this was. People will say, and even Richard has a hard time with the hero thing. I say, “You could have let them take control of the ship, you could have told them where the men were; you took a chance, having this play out differently, you did the right thing, Richard.” I said, “You did the right thing; you protected your ship, you protected your crew, you protected your cargo… You knew the odds were better if it was just you against them, and that’s a heroic moment.

So I can see why the public felt the same way; you don’t get everyday heroes. You don’t hear a lot about the everyday heroes. Look at the policemen and the firemen who put their lives on the line, and you don’t hear about them. And it went on for five days, and it was Easter, a religious holiday for so many in the world. It wasn’t just here in the United States. It was worldwide.

Y: When did you know you had your husband back, not the world hero back?
A: From the moment he got off that plane. I always had my husband, because in our house we are who we are. Even outside this house, we are who we are. I don’t want to say I wish it had never happened, but I’d be fine if it hadn’t. This has given us unbelievable opportunities to meet some unbelievable people [whom] we would never otherwise have [had] the opportunity to meet, and that’s the best part that came out of this: some of our U.S. military people; I had dinner with Madeleine Albright, who is kind of an amazing woman to me. And everyday people like us went to the Washington Opera. We toured the Queen Mary. I was never so impressed as I was meeting some of the military wives. I had a husband who had a job, went to work, who after three or four months came home, and until this pirate thing I never thought he had a dangerous job. But you take these young military wives, and they kiss their husbands goodbye not really knowing again if it’s going to be two or three months or 18 months, and are they going to make it home. I was more touched by them than I thought I should be touching their lives.

Y: When did life become more normal?
A: It took a while. We were so bombarded. People wanted us to get on TV. Larry King called us personally, and Jay Leno called us personally, wanting Richard to tell his story. It took pretty much until the end of May, when it started to die down a little bit. We joked and said, “Thank God for swine flu,” because that became the next media sensation.

Y: Did you have a refuge?

A: I think we did. We’d go out on the lake with a boat or just being with our close friends. People said, “We didn’t want to call you, didn’t want to bother you.” We said, “Are you kidding? Your calling us is our normal, asking us to come over for a beer.” Even our closest friends felt they wanted to give us time, but they were part of our real life. That’s my norm. That’s part of my everyday life.

Y: Richard has said that in his life he always had this pattern: home for certain months, then away. Now he faces a mysterious future. How does that affect you?
A: I’m not sure yet. Ask me if he never goes back. Rich and I get along really well. We had the routine where I wouldn’t see him for a while, and that kept everything new and fresh. Even my friends would joke: “Get my husband a job where he could go away.”

We’re in a different phase right now, the kids are away in college, and now it’s back to where it started, just the two of us. But I still do what I always do: I get up and go to work. My everyday routines are still my everyday routines. It’s different at this point having him home. He’s actually busier with planning events, which is odd for us, because Rich would come home and never have to do anything except fix the door handle or cut the lawn. We’re not used to having Richard sit in front of the computer or on the phone. I’m not sure how it will affect us; I’m hoping that it doesn’t. I don’t think it will. Through all of this, I’m proud that we’ve maintained who we are. We haven’t lost that.

Y: That’s hard to do.
A: He’s a very grounded man, and he grounds me, and it grounds our kids. We’ve just stayed focused on who we are and who we’ve always been, and I don’t want that to change, except [that] some of the opportunities to go places and meet people has been sort of wow! I sat in the Oval Office, I sat on the couch, and I couldn’t help but think of all the amazing people who have passed through these doors, and I’m one of them. Not that I’m amazing–but how did I get here? Why am I sitting here? That was an absolute wow.

Please Note: This article was accurate at the time of publication. When planning a trip, please confirm details by directly contacting any company or establishment you intend to visit.

Tags:
Yankee Magazine Advertising

Bring New England Home
plus, get the Tablet Edition FREE!

In this issue: Our Favorite Fall Drives

  • Sweet & Savory Apple Recipes
  • The Mohawk Trail at 100
  • New England's Best Cider Festival
  • Man vs. Seal on Cape Cod
Subscribe Today and Save 44%

4 Responses to Andrea Phillips: Waiting in Vermont

  1. JIM APPLEMAN October 4, 2013 at 8:30 pm #

    THANK-YOU!!

    And GOD is ALWAYS there to console us!

    Thank-you!!

    JIM (USAF brat!)
    of Machias, MAINE

  2. Glenda Armandi October 18, 2013 at 1:44 am #

    Beautiful, beautiful article. I loved it because of it’s down home feelings. Andrea, you shared your feelings with us and your spirituality which holds us together in all times. From the time I heard about the Maersk Alabama being seized by pirates I was gripped. I heard about it early on. My son was an engineer on a grain ship and this struck close to home. Now he is Chief on a tug state side. He always liked the sea best but with the company he was with changing unions he has not been yet been able to go.

    Praise God for family strength and God strength. May God Bless you and your family always!
    Love and prayers from the Mom of a Mariner Engineer.

    • Karen Teller October 28, 2013 at 6:21 pm #

      My father was chief engineer for many years on container ships just like the one Richard Phillips captained. Its a very hard life. I grew up with dad gone for two months at a time. He went into the Navy then after four years went to Mass Maritime then sailed for the rest of his career. Seeing the movie last week brought back memories of seeing dad off on some of his long trips and I know how tough it was to keep the guys on the ship focused and working.

      I cannot believe what Captain Phillips went thru and endured and we all thank god for the Navy and most importantly the Navy Seals! Great group of men protecting our country.

      I would like to know if Andrea and Richard Phillips would agree to be a guest speaker for the Tiffany Circle of Women of the American Red Cross at our Summit in DC May 17th? On that night
      we honor and salute our Military. Last year we had a retired Seal speak with us from team six.

      This year we would love to honor Captain Phillips.

      Karen

  3. Penelope Chevalier March 2, 2014 at 11:15 am #

    President Obama gave the order that saved Andrea Phillips’ husband’s life. It would have shown a great deal of character for her to be respectful to the man and the office. Her attitude towards him was atrocious. Display some gratitude to our president as well as all the taxpayers of America who funded her husband’s rescue, and put petty politics aside. This just made her look like a small person, her husband rose to the challenge and she sadly, was not able to rise to a much easier challenge of behaving like a civilized human being when given the high honor of being invited to meet the president.

Leave a Reply

We reserve the right to remove or edit comments that are offensive or disrespectful to our readers and/or writers, cannot be verified, lack clarity, or contain profanity. Your comments may be republished by Yankee Magazine across multiple platforms.

Register Sign In

©2013, Yankee Publishing Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Yankee Publishing Inc., | P.O. Box 520, Dublin, NH 03444 | (603) 563-8111

fall-eguide-2014-600x350